Every Catholic has a conversion story. Some are riveting tales about a search for Truth. Others are from people raised in the faith that have an epiphany, realizing that there is more to being Christian than taking up space in a pew during Mass. Still others are not unlike the Parable of the Prodigal son, where the spiritual traveler has come to an end and realizes life changes are in order. Some are fairly direct routes, while others are meandering journeys, on the order of travelling from New York to Paris by way of Shanghai. Most seem to have certain aspect s of all of these. My own story falls into this last category.
I will not bore you with the mundane details of my childhood, other than those things that relate to my faith. I was born and raised in a typical Midwestern small town in north central Ohio, with an economy based on a mixture of industry and agriculture. It was a typical American community that had parades on holidays, fireworks on the Fourth of July, Little League Baseball, and a church on every corner. Truthfully, there were no less than six churches within walking distance from my house when I was growing up, and rarely went to any of them. In fact, the only times I really recollect going to church before I was twenty-one was when I was a Boy Scout, and we held our meetings at the Lutheran Church just down the street. My Uncle Harley took me to a church a handful of times before I even started kindergarten, but I have no lasting memories from these excursions to Sunday school. This is not to say that my parents had no faith in God, quite the contrary was true, in fact. But this was the 1970’s and I believe that my parents just fell under the sway of the general apostasy that swept through the country during that particular debacle of a decade. While we were most decidedly Christian, we were in no way Catholic, but this also brings to mind an incongruity regarding my maternal grandparents. As I said, my family was decidedly not Catholic, and I believe my mom’s parents were Baptist, although I cannot be sure.
This irreligious upbringing had a more profound effect than I believe my parents thought possible. By the time I reached high school, I had completely lost all faith. In tenth grade, I wrote a biology paper on human evolution. This paper eventually led me to dismiss any talk of God or even some nebulous “designer” as nothing short of myth. Though I had no faith in God, He had faith in me. I just didn’t realize it yet. Before I go on, I should explain what effect agnosticism and atheism can have on a person. Without God, humans are just apes with a more highly evolved nervous system. If, after death, all that is waiting for us is oblivion, then the only motive for anything is preservation of the species as a whole, and the propagation of my own DNA in the population. It is not to say we are little more than animals. It is to say we are animals. Furthermore, since it would appear that moral behavior does nothing to promote either of these ends, then moral behavior in and of itself is a detriment to the species. This mindset does not come to all atheists, but it does come to at least some. The only actions with permanent consequences are those that lead to death. That is the philosophy I adopted.
I was wrong. When I was 19 I entered a phase of my life that I will title “My Colossally Stupid Phase.” This phase was defined by criminal activity. I was a thief, albeit not a very good one. A word to those who might be considering an illustrious career as a thief: If you do not have a natural aptitude, this is a very poor career choice. If you are not a natural at it, you will go to jail. Let us just say that I did not have a natural aptitude. My pathetic attempts at thievery landed me in the Richland County (Ohio) Jail. My tenure at this facility was, thankfully, far from pleasant. I only spent ninety days there, which by my reckoning, was precisely ninety days more than I was prepared for. What jail did provide was time to think. Not only to reflect on the proximate causes that led to my incarceration, but also the more remote causes. One conclusion I had arrived at is that there had to be more to be more to life than what I had previously concluded. A contributing factor to this conclusion was a prison ministry. I do not recall which faith community sent these missionaries to the jail, but I read their tracts, and the message was something I had neither heard, nor thought about for many years: Jesus loved me. With all my shortcomings, Jesus loved me. The seed had been planted, but the time for it to grow and produce fruit was not yet at hand.
After my short stint in the Richland County Jail, it was time for me to try and find a job, and find one I did. I held the illustrious position of “Crew” at a franchise of a prominent chain of eating establishments. It was not a great job, but I was working. It also inspired me to try and find a better job. After about a year of fast food, I started working with a temporary agency, and I started working in a toy factory. It was here that I met Matt. Matt was a committed Christian with a strong faith. We became friends, even though he knew I was not really a believer at this point in my life. After some time, he asked me if I would be interested in learning karate. I thought, “Sure, why not?” Little did I know that after my first practice my life would change. In some ways the change was dramatic. In others, it didn’t change at all. I was presented with a small tract entitled “The Romans Road to Salvation.” For those of you unfamiliar with this particular sales pitch, it presents the fundamentalist version of the Gospel with a handful of verses from Romans and one verse from Revelation. The notable thing to remember is that in this method of “winning souls to Christ” there is absolutely no indication of the need for true repentance or obedience. Of course it was attractive to me. It was what I like to call a “Get out of Hell Free Card.” I prayed a little “sinner’s prayer” and according to the little tract, I was in. Nothing anybody could do could get me out of God’s hands, and I couldn’t even turn my back away. I was set.
The following Sunday, I went to church. I recall no real specifics; save that it was a fire and brimstone sermon, as they all tended to be at that congregation. But I remember distinctly the altar call. I went forward to be baptized, in the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit. Even though I didn’t know it at the time, all of my sins to that point had been washed away, and an indelible mark had been placed on my soul that carried with it a burden of responsibility. This aspect of responsibility only applied in a superficial sense. I was “saved,” and I was told that I wed Jesus my very life, but there was no moral imperative to be obedient to that moral law. I was very explicitly told that future actions had no bearing on my salvation, provided I was sincere. I did however have to face God at the judgment and explain my lack of doing His work. This particular congregation was very legalistic. The basis of what I thought was obedience to God’s Word was little more than my efforts to prove to everyone else there that I really was saved.
After I had suitably established that I was indeed saved, pressure from the pastor, the deacons, and others in the church mounted for me to enter the ministry. So without prayer, without spiritual direction, without anything much more than peer pressure, I decided I was “called” to be a Baptist missionary. And what particular mission field did I feel called to? Canada. Not to the Inuit villages or anything like that, but to Montreal, in the heart of French Canada to minister to all those Quebecois Catholics. I had been associated with the congregation long enough to have been infected with a particularly nasty strain of anti-Catholicism, courtesy of Chick Publications. Through this indoctrination (there is no nicer way to say it), I was taught the “truth” about Catholicism. It was a man-made system of beliefs, synthesized from pagan and Christian beliefs. It was full of Egyptian sun-worship and Palestinian Baal-worship. Catholicism was to blame for the KKK, Nazism, Communism, Masonry, and every other ill that could be thought of. To my shame, I accepted all of it. This was reinforced in the school that was chosen for me: Hyles-Anderson College in Crown Point, Indiana.
I did say “chosen for me,” and this is no exaggeration. To ensure their “preacher-boys” went to a “good” school, all were pressured to attend Hyles-Anderson. I stayed there for a year. I had financing issues, because it was a non-accredited institution, and therefore not eligible for federal financial aid, including student loans. But more importantly I had some theological issues. I was firmly in the Sola Scriptura camp, meaning that all doctrine had to be able to be backed up solidly by the Scriptures. One day at chapel, there was a message that I will never forget. Ironically, I can’t remember the administrator that was preaching, but the main focus of the sermon was that rather than conforming our will to God, God would conform His will to what we wanted. I left the college the next day. I was at a point that I did not know what the Truth was, but I knew that this was not it.
To be continued…